Tuesday, November 20, 2012

" Do Not Let The Behavior Of Others Destroy Your Inner Peace " ... Dalai Lama

" Do Not Let The Behavior Of Others Destroy Your Inner Peace " ... Dalai Lama


Gentle Patient Persuasion Can Break The Strongest Resistance And Can Even Convince Rulers.

Gentle Patient Persuasion Can Break The Strongest Resistance And Can Even Convince Rulers.

15 By much forbearance is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone.
15 By long forbearing is a ruler persuaded, And a soft tongue breaketh the bone.
15 By long forbearance and calmness of spirit a judge or ruler is persuaded, and soft speech breaks down the most bonelike resistance.
15 A commander can be persuaded with patience,
    and a tender tongue can break a bone.
15 With patience a ruler may be won over,
    and a gentle tongue can break bones.
15 Patience and gentle talk
can convince a ruler
    and overcome any problem.
15 By long forbearing is a ruler persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone.
15 By patience a prince shall be appeased, and a soft tongue shall break hardness.
15 With patience, you can make anyone change their thinking, even a ruler. Gentle speech is very powerful.
15 With patience a ruler may be persuaded,
    and a soft tongue will break a bone.
15 With patience a ruler may be persuaded,
    and a soft tongue will break a bone.
15 With patience you can persuade a ruler,
    and a soft tongue can break bones.
15 Patient persuasion can break down the strongest resistance and can even convince rulers.
15 A ruler can be persuaded through patience,
and a gentle tongue can break a bone.
15 By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone.
15 A prince, in his forbearance, may yet be won over to thy cause; hard heart gives place to soft tongue.
15 With patience a ruler may be persuaded,
    and a soft tongue will break a bone.
15 Patient persistence pierces through indifference;
    gentle speech breaks down rigid defenses.
15 By forbearance a ruler may be persuaded,
And a soft tongue breaks the bone.
15 With patience you can convince a ruler,
    and a gentle word can get through to the hard-headed.
15 Through patience a ruler can be persuaded,
and a soft tongue can break a bone.
15 If you are patient, you can win an official over to your side.
    And gentle words can break a bone.
15 Through patience a ruler can be persuaded,
    and a gentle tongue can break a bone.
15 Through patience a ruler can be persuaded,
    and a gentle tongue can break a bone.
15 Through patience a ruler can be persuaded,
    and a gentle tongue can break a bone.
15 By long forbearance a ruler is persuaded,
And a gentle tongue breaks a bone.
15 When one is slow to anger, a ruler may be won over. A gentle tongue will break a bone.
15 Patience can persuade a prince,
    and soft speech can break bones.
15 By forbearance is a katzin (ruler) persuaded, and a gentle lashon breaketh the bone.
15 Through patience a ruler can be persuaded,
    and a gentle tongue can break a bone.
15 A prince shall be made soft by patience; and a soft tongue shall break hardness.
15 By long-suffering is a ruler persuaded, And a soft tongue breaketh a bone.

http://www.biblegateway.com/verse/en/Proverbs%2025%3A15

Friday, November 9, 2012

Good things happen to positively charged people.

Good things happen to positively charged people.


"Good things happen to positively charged people because they look for good things even when others only see the bad. Positively charged people are both powerful and empowering. They are leaders. They are successful. They believe in themselves and their abilities, and their enthusiasm and self-confidence affect everyone around them."

Go forward wi
th WINNERS in your life and leave the losers behind.

Go forward with WINNERS in your life and leave the losers behind. This is no time to have unmotivated sad, pitiful energy draining people in your life! You can run faster with 100 motivated people going for a dream than with one toxic person around your neck. Find the courage to cut the ties with anyone who will take you back to a life that is no longer you. Don't take their calls or feel sorry for them. They are a part of your past, so keep it that way. Seek out, find, and maintain new relationships with people who are driven, creative, ambitious, and inspiring to be around...people who will stretch your mind and your life vision. Life is about growing in every dimension of who you are, and manifesting your GREATEST life! You deserve !

Dondi Filarmeo : The people around us can either break us or make us. If a person choose to be among chickens, very soon he will be scratching the ground like them. If we choose to fly with the eagles. Very soon we will be flying as high like them.

Make your move before you're ready. Kick your fears, excuses and procrastination to the curb

Make your move before you're ready. Kick your fears, excuses and procrastination to the curb. Stop giving yourself reasons for standing still, failing to act, and playing it safe! Leap over your comfort zone, and decide to live a life beyond survival. Things may happen to you that you can't anticipate. Roll with the punches, and keep moving because you have what it takes to get through any experience in life. Stay focused, determined, and positive! You deserve!!!

Count your blessings...gratitude is the fuel of resiliency.

Count your blessings...gratitude is the fuel of resiliency. Train your mind to think of at least one thing for which you are thankful everyday. It is often easy to overlook the small but significant blessings in your life. Look for positive things outside of yourself, because sometimes you can't trust your mind. When you choose to look at the positives instead of focusing on the negatives, you strengthen your courage, and your internal capacity to take on life. Look yourself in the eye, and realize that you are ultimately responsible for working your way out of this situation. Give up the desire for things to be easy, and deal with circumstances such as you find them. Know that you have the power to live a meaningful and happy life. You deserve!

Believe in yourself. You are the only person who has the ability to radically change your life.

Believe in yourself. You are the only person who has the ability to radically change your life. Focus your time and energy on increasing your belief in what's possible for you, building your skills, and creating a network of achievement focused relationships. Choose to be a powerful force in your own life and in the world. Make choices on a daily basis that will move you in the direction of what you want to create for yourself. Summon up the courage, the resourcefulness, and the motivation to create a life that you can be proud of. Use your imagination, talents and abilities to live a life of purpose, make a greater impact, and to live your legacy now.

Don't wait for tomorrow to do what you can do today.

Don't wait for tomorrow to do what you can do today. Take action right now on the things that you need to do that will move you closer to massive achievement. Look for results daily ~ not reasons or excuses for not doing what you know to do. Be actively engaged in creating a future for yourself that is significantly different than the present one. Leap over procrastination, step away from excuses, and run full steam ahead. You have things to do, places to go, and people to meet who can take your life to another level. Now's the time to make it happen! Be passionate in pursuing the path towards your dream. You deserve!

Stop trying to change the people you love and change yourself !

Stop trying to change the people you love and change yourself ! Stop trying to change people who take your money but won't take your advice. You will only drain your own mental, spiritual, emotional, and financial reserves. The truth is...people change when they are sick and tired of being sick and tired, or hit rock bottom. If you're dealing with addiction or irresponsible behavior from grown adults ~ protect your wallet and your mind. It doesn't mean you don't love them. Your attempts to help may only delay what is inevitable. Allow them to take the journey they have chosen for themselves. Choose to let go of the guilt, and be at peace. You may require counseling or emotional support to stop being an enabler. If necessary, give yourself some distance so that you can stop being used or manipulated because they know that you care, and you love them. You have the right to enjoy a guilt-free, happy and productive life. Commit yourself to changing the only person you really can - YOU!! You deserve!

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Sunday, October 28, 2012

Leadership is solving problems.


                Leadership is solving problems.

Leadership is solving problems. The day soldiers stop bringing you their problems is the day you have stopped leading them. They have either lost confidence that you can help or concluded you do not care. Either case is a failure of leadership.
Colin Powell
Read more at http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/authors/c/colin_powell.html#iUjcbERqpiTaqYbo.99

Monday, October 8, 2012

Top 10 Reasons Why Playing Cashflow 101 Could Be Good for You


Top 10 Reasons Why Playing Cashflow 101 Could Be Good for You

I think it was the year 2005 when I first attended the first Cashflow Event in the Philippines. I was still managing several traditional businesses back then and what prompted me to attend was when I have read the book Rich Dad Poor Dad of Robert Kiyosaki. So when it came in the Philippines for the first time, I grabbed the opportunity. I paid around 7,000 pesos for that 1 day event.
Of course I got a lot from attending it and I made it sure that the investment I put in will not go to waste. Although I was not also able to get out of the rat race the first time I played it, I went home fulfilled for getting worth a million of learnings. I realized that indeed, playing the game reflected my mindset and habits way back then when it comes to money and wealth. After that game, I became wiser and more keen when it comes to moving towards any goals I set myself for in business and life.
So why playing cashflow could do you good?

Here are my top 10 lists WHY:

1. You will be freed up.

What’s makes us poor is not what we have, its our mindset, our thoughts. Where we are is a result of the decisions we made. Everything that happens to us, we made it happen whether the result is desirable or not. Our success is a result of what's in our minds and most of the time we are prisoners of it.
What’s great about this? The keys to getting out and experience peace of mind is in your hands. The cashflow is just a tool, for it to be powerful tool will still depend on you on what you will do with it.

2. You get out of your comfort zone

“In this world you’re either growing or you’re dying so get in motion and grow.” – Lou Holtz
Playing the game allows you take risks, risks that you haven’t even taken in your life. What’s fun and exciting about this? Its just a game! and you can actually fail anytime.

3. You focus on your goal.

Of course life is not just about working our butt out day in and day out. There's more than staying in the four corners of our office or our home. Playing the Cashflow game opens to us what life is all about and its about working on our dreams and making it happen. Whether its our personal dreams or dreams for our family, community, people who matters to us or even our country. That day when I first played the game, I went  home inspired and happy knowing that my dreams are possible and I can achieve it.

4. You get advise from happy successful people.

A lot of times, people will have a lot to say about what we want and what we are doing however, most of the time, they are not even successful and happy or worst you don’t even see them becoming successful or even working towards improving themselves. When I played the Cashflow game, I got to seek advice and feedback from people who are really successful and are happy with what they are doing and are really walking their talk and not simply having opinions about things.

5.You experience the joy of celebrating success.
You will realize that it is not the destination that gives us joy and happiness but the journey of being able to achieve something, to get out of the rat race, despite fear, hesitation and doubt. 
6. You learn to get rid of bad debt.
 
The Cashflow game made me learn not to be attached on things including money. You will know what are those things or decisions that lead you to accumulate bad debts. Debts are not bad, what makes it bad is when we use it to pay for liabilities and not to create or build assets.
I learned to get rid of bad debts and became wiser the next time around. It's not gonna be easy but as according to Einstein, "we cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them".

7. You learn what it is to give and receive.
I thought before that charity is only for the wealthy. Playing the game, it taught me  any person from any walks of life can do charity. At the same time, it taught me that giving is part of success. Successful people give. I realized that we all have the opportunity to do philanthropy and it is not exclusive only for the wealthy, the moment you start giving whether big or small that is philantropy already, you are wealthy already and it is not what we have that counts that makes us wealthy, its what we think and do whether big and small. Giving is a being of successful people and we have a choice now to be and feel successful.
Aside from this, we may not receive money in return to what we have given but I realized that what you receive is far more than that because you got help from friends, you got an information that can save you from getting into debt or worse getting bankrupt. Sometimes the money we give does not come back as money as well but goes back in the form of help, support, encouragement etc... and whatever that is, you learn to be a great receiver.

8. You learn from mistakes, big time.
What’s so powerful about the game? It makes you recognize your mistakes and put an end to the habit that keeps on repeating it. The game teaches you that it is ok to have mistakes but it’s not ok if we keep on repeating it over and over again. If we expect a different result yet we keep on doing the same thing, as Albert Einstein said,   that's insanity.
After playing the game, you go home accepting the mistakes you’ve done in life but being grateful and happy for finding out that you can now make better decisions to never repeat mistakes again.

9. You learn to spot opportunities. 
Playing the game will teach you to spot great opportunities. True, there are a lot of opportunities offered out there but ultimately its those great opportunities me must learn to spot that if we grab it and start working on it, will give us time and money freedom.

10. You understand that permanent residual/passive income is the name of the game. 

Whatever it is that we are doing now, if we stop working or die tomorrow, will money continue to flow and not just in our lifetime but to our next generation? In the game, I learned to take on urgency and not emergency, that success happens the moment I make that decision of taking charge of my future and that I can start doing something about it and start taking action!